Saturday, April 25, 2009


I've heard it said that you can't know joy without knowing pain. There'd be know way to appreciate the high without the low. Maybe that's why we have seasons. All I know is, this world can be simply breathtaking. And I love being reminded of the millions of miracles around me as I watch the earth wake up again. It just does something to my spirit. If you had spied on my 30 minute commute home on Friday, you would have noted my wind-whipped hair and the fact that my hand was sticking out of my sunroof for the duration.

But that's nothing compared to what I get to see when I get home. Here are some of my favorites:

--I was the sole disciplinarian for Tru today, and that doesn't happen a ton. The boy has a rebellious streak a mile wide, so it didn't take long for him to find his way to a time out. Afterward, I picked him up and was trying to extoll the virtues of not screaming like one is on fire while stealing toys from one's brother, and I couldn't get two words out before he would solemnly plant a firm kiss on my lips. I'd try again to finish the lecture, but no go--more kisses. It became comical pretty quickly--I think he was honestly trying to shut Mommy up by kissing her into submission. And it worked.


--Now that it's warm, the boys have a new favorite activity. The barren, dirty alley. They'll amuse themselves for a while on the second story deck, digging in the rock box and pushing the tractors around, but eventually they beg to "dig, dig, dig!" Apparently, little boys come programmed knowing that digging in a sandbox of rocks is good, but REAL digging is sitting on your heels in the dirt, stirring stuff up just enough to create little dustclouds around you and coat you with a nice thin film of grime. As completely opposite in disposition as my boys can be, they are united on this front. Dirt is king.

--Putting Harrison to bed has a fun perk. After I read or tell him a story, he immediately returns the favor. His stories tend to go in little trends for a couple of weeks until something stimulates him to make major changes. The current story line always begins with Big John and involves getting stuck in the mud. The stories vary a lot, night to night, but lately you can count on those elements. But the best part is after his story. Then he asks me if I'd like to know a secret. I always do. He won't ever tell until my ear is brushing his face, and then I get lots of warm, loud breaths, lots of gibberish I can't make out, and then a few random words like "apple" and "banana" and he pulls back with a huge smile. I assure him that's a great secret, and then I tell him a secret back.

--Dan is the man. He puts a lot of guys to shame. In the last couple of weeks, he not only found these two tiny ceiling fans and lights on clearance for a steal, but he somehow managed to get up into our attic and pull wires and . . . stuff (don't really know all the details here) . . . and put up ceiling fans in the boys' bedrooms that hadn't been set up for any fixtures in the ceilings at all. It amazes my to think of all the skills he's picked up since we got married. But my favorite part of that story is how he shopped around and found fixtures for a fraction of what they should have been. Have I been rubbing off or what?

8 comments:

Cameron and Cindy said...

Awww. . . your boys are getting SO big! You should make a book of Harrison's little stories. Love it!

Flee said...

I just can't stand how cute those boys are! I love those stories! Give e'em squishes all around for me will you?

Anonymous said...

sharing secrets and kisses! Can it get any better?! Dan must take after his Dad. i was always impressed at how many things he could figure out how to do. I hasn't rubbed off on me in 37 years so i guess it just won't. Need i say- I wished we lived closer so I could get some wrestling in. Mich mom

Teresa and Terry said...

LOVE the pics and stories, Jen. You are surrounded by sweet, sweet boys. Life couldn't get much better could it? You're a lucky girl.

Love, Mom

Anonymous said...

my comment was on the phone. you should know who this is.:)

mom gilbert said...

Sometimes Bob and I just look at each other and marvel at all of our wonderful little grandchildren. I decided that I needed to get registered or whatever it is so that I can comment on all of your blogs as someone other than Anonymous! mom

Michelle said...

So, so precious....these sweet days with your two little boys take me back to little Luke and Josher. They are huge now...but I still get daily kisses and hugs, thank goodness. I'm going to ask for a story the next time I see Mr. Harrison :)

Dad G. said...

Jenny, your blog is great. I love your stories and the glimpses into your life with your boys and Dan.
Keep your blog up, we enjoy it.
dad